Saturday, 11 July 2015

KEEP THE FAITH

Songs have played a huge part in bringing the confidence back in times of discouragement and demotivation. Songs play a valuable part in one’s life. We most times only look out for the beats and instrumentation to a song without paying much attention to the lyrics. Even if you do pay attention, we fail to digest what the lyrics say. Only when you digest lyrics do you understand the meaning to the song, why the writer wrote the song and under what circumstances the song came about.
The following lines are lyrics drawn out from a Michael Jackson song which is titled after the heading of this post. It tells us to have faith in all we do because only at that can you achieve a lot in life. The apostle Paul in 2 Timothy 4:7 said “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.” (NKJV). It was through believing in faith that he was able to overcome the challenges he faced in his journey as a missionary, otherwise he would have ended prematurely but he fulfilled a lot because he carried faith along. Today the church can hardly go a day without making reference to him. Have some faith and you’ll be surprised at how much you can achieve in life.

*Please note that this is not the song in its entirety as some of the words from the original lyrics have been altered to suit the audience.

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Say those words
Like you understand them
Because the power of believing is in your hands
So give yourself a chance
As you can climb the highest mountain
And swim the deepest sea,
All you need is the will to want it
And a little self-esteem

So keep the faith
Don't let nobody turn you down
You’ve got to know when it's good to go
To get your dreams up off the ground
Believe in yourself
No matter what it's going to take
You can be a winner
But you got to keep the faith

I know that you can sail across the water
Float across the sky, high
Any road that you take will get you there
As long as you  try and believe
Just keep your eyes on the prize
Your feet flat on the ground
And keep the faith.

Lift up your head 
And show the world what you got
Go for what you want 
And don't let them get in your way
You can be a winner 
But you got to keep the faith

Better stand up 
And act like you want to do right
Don't play the fool 
For the rest of your life
Work on it 
And you'll make it someday
Go for what you want
And don't forget to keep the faith

Look at yourself 
And what you doing right now
Stand back a minute 
Just to check yourself out
Straighten out your life
And how you're living each day
Get yourself together 
Because you got to keep the faith

Get your mind on track
Get your self-respect back
Take it like you want it
Because it's just a matter of time
For  your confidence to run out
So if you believe you can do it
You've got to keep the faith.

Excerpt from “Keep the Faith” Anthony Dent, Michael Jackson, Sean Combs, Siedah Garrett, Faith Evans, Glen Ballard. 1991.

I do hope that as these words inspired me, it will be the same for you too. Don’t think of yourself alone. Why not share this with someone. It might go a long way in touching someone’s life.


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Thursday, 11 June 2015

WILL BUHARI BE ABLE TO SHOULDER THE PRESSURE?

After much anxiety, May 29 has passed and Muhammadu Buhari is finally the President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria. To think Goodluck Jonathan won’t be the one handling the affairs of the country for the next four years is still a bit of surprise to me. Much more is the fact that the PDP won’t be having a representative in the seat of the three most powerful people in the country: the President, the Senate President and the Speaker of the House of Representatives. All will be taken by the APC, a party whose domain has been prominent in the South-West. To that effect, kudos to Bola Tinubu for doing his homework well.
It has to be said that transition of the presidency to the APC should be a time of reflection for the PDP. You obviously can’t be in power forever. Even Zimbabwe’s ZANU-PF, which has had Robert Mugabe in power ever since the Southern African country gained independence in 1980 seems to be falling apart. Has PDP fallen apart? It’s a tough call to make. Regardless of the defeat, the party still remains strong and is still one of the biggest parties on the African Continent.
Goodluck Jonathan has failed in his leadership, asides his kind gestures since he accepted defeat during the March 28 polls, if PDP is to succeed again, they need someone with charisma like Obasanjo. Not a Jonathan who doesn’t seem to know anything about politics and governance. As a president you don’t go about making careless statements in the heat of a crisis and allow your wife who is supposed to represent you to make mockery of your position as the president. You also do not handle intra-party conflicts carelessly. Losing Kano to the APC and allowing an incumbent governor in Rivers State to join the opposition all under your nose is disheartening. It means you don’t know how to do your homework. Such couldn’t have happened under the watch of Obasanjo. That the former head of state pulled out of the party is the biggest blow of all. PDP therefore need a rethink, a rebranding and reorientation if they are to stand a chance of taking back the presidency in 2019. That of course is dependent on how incumbent president Buhari performs in his first four years.
It’s no doubt that Nigeria is need of a great fix in almost every corners of development you can think of and that’s why the Nigerian populace came out to cast their votes for the ex-military head of state. The current National Assembly dilemma is already a bad omen happening right under Buhari's nose. He had made statements that we should not expect a miracle. That is true but he needs to act fast. Gains need to be made as soon as possible so the Nigerian nation can see reasons why they voted for the 72 year Fulani man. That the Christians could vote for him with high expectations asides form the fact that his vice is a reputable pastor is more intriguing.
Nigerians have decided to overlook some of the harsh and somehow brutal records Buhari had as a military head of state. Well that really doesn’t matter today because this is a different dispensation so he obviously won’t have the same approach to things. 

*To be continued.

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Tuesday, 9 June 2015

WILL BUHARI BE ABLE TO SHOULDER THE PRESSURE? CONTINUED

I have noticed that many Nigerians have been swayed by some of the gestures shown by Buhari. The way he has been living a simple and easy life as against the extravagant life that politicians live and even those in his rank of Major General. Yes it’s a good way to lead by example but that is not what really matters. What matters most is what you deliver to the people. We got swayed by the fact that Jonathan had a poor background (I had no shoes). We ended up having a bad leadership and he didn’t deliver much to the expectation of people. Looking at the immediate past governor of Lagos, Babatunde Fashola, he lived a bit of a simple life and he delivered. Not because he was one of very few Nigerian governors who didn’t go around in a convoy of 20 black Toyota Prados but because he wanted to make Lagos a city to be reckoned with in Africa and the World. That should be the same focus for Buhari that Nigeria should be a force to reckon with on the global stage and of course that can only happen when things start working well at home.
There is more pressure on Buhari because he is likely going to step on a lot of toes which would not be nice to many people’s liking. He needs to do a massive restructuring of the existing government infrastructure and institutions. That will be key to make his administration work but it comes a huge cost of sweeping all the deadwood that make such systems not to function well. Buhari faces further pressure because the media will be closely monitoring his work. As we all know the media can create something out of nothing when things don’t go well. Jonathan’s inability to act right made media say his wife was controlling him. His inability to handle to Boko Haram situation made him to be labeled a “clueless president.” Since the media has more freedom under the democratic setting, Buhari’s words and actions need to be properly coordinated. Even if false news about him is circulating, there really is nothing that can be done. This is not the military setting where the media were censored on what to produce about government. Should Buhari fail to deliver, you can be sure the media would start bringing up twisted and false stories about him. If he delivers, it will be praise about him just as with Babatunde Fashola whom the media never gave any false reports about because he delivered for Lagos. Even when he made some controversial decisions such as banning Okada, the end result was praise from the media.
Buhari looks certain to deliver and I would suggest he takes a cue from Babatunde Fashola and Barack Obama. Fashola has been able to turn Lagos into a destination for all both within and outside Nigeria. The face of Lagos now is so impressive no one ever thought it would get there someday. Many of the things Fashola did as regards electricity, education, transportation, security, business and employment can be replicated by Buhari at the Federal level. Buhari should emulate Obama because what other American Presidents might not have done happened under the watch of former Illinois senator. These include returning American soldiers from the war in Iraq and Afghanistan in due time, capturing Al-Qaeda supremo Osama Bin Laden, restoring diplomatic ties with Cuba after more than 50 years and reaching an agreement with Iran on its nuclear programme. These are issues which past American presidents failed to deal with but the success of them under Obama has received praise and acclaim all over the world. This means Obama’s name will go down in history as one of America’s iconic presidents.
What will Buhari be remembered for? One cannot say for now but the next four years can give an indication for that. Failure for Sai Baba to deliver might see him return to Daura in his native Kaduna in 2019, the same way Jonathan returned to Otuoke in March.

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Monday, 23 March 2015

JONATHAN VS. BUHARI: TRANSFORMATION OR CHANGE? CONTINUED.

Does the decision of Buhari picking Yemi Osinbajo who is a well respected person as his running mate make him more credible? The vice-president doesn’t have much work to do but if people are claiming that Buhari might die in office and Osinbajo as a Yoruba man will take the presidency as Jonathan did when Yar’Adua died in 2009, they are wrong.
Buhari is over 70 years it’s not going to be easy to rule Nigeria. I believe ruling Nigeria is one of the toughest jobs in the world. I really don’t see how this man will eliminate the corrupt leaders in the system. Or is he going to do what Ghana’s Jerry Rawlings did by assassinating corrupt leaders of Ghana in his so called quest to “purge Ghana of corruption and social injustice”? Absolutely not. Rawlings was running a military government then. That is however not the case here for Buhari.
Looking at the manifestos of both Jonathan and Buhari, they both don’t look convincing. We all know Jonathan’s promises are lies. Saying he would create 12 million jobs in Oyo and Ogun State. How is that possible in just two states? How many will he now create across the country? 300 million? Buhari says he will create about 700,000 jobs nationwide within the first few months if he assumes office. This sounds reasonable but what type of jobs will he create? Is it making people becoming law enforcement officers like Babatunde Fashola did in Lagos state for those in agencies like LASTMA? Those who were employed are area boys roaming the streets of Lagos but in this case what will Buhari do for the many university graduates without jobs? Buhari says he will provide one meal a day for children in public primary schools nationwide. How visible is that? What will the quality of food be like? These are deep questions we as the electorate should ask these aspirants unfortunately we are not doing so.
As March 28 approaches, let’s get our acts right by reflecting on how to move the country forward. It’s not by shouting for these aspirants. They promise us so many things but we don’t see it in the end and typical of Nigerians we move on not minding what goes on in the system. If I were to make my choice I would go for Buhari not because I see him as the right man for the job, it’s something that will take a while to find, but I choose him because Jonathan has taken the country to all time low in terms of international prestige. Nigeria has lost its image in Africa thanks to the many clueless statements made by Jonathan. He isn’t a leader material afterall he never got into leadership roles legitimately; it was only out of circumstance. The fact that I will vote Buhari doesn’t mean I go about shouting CHANGE! carrying a broom. NO! But what I would do is to monitor what Buhari is doing. If he fails in addressing something, we question and interrogate him. Not that we leave him to do as he pleases. We let Jonathan get away with too many things and that can’t happen with Buhari. We must constantly voice our concerns with him. That way he acts in the right way. That is what true democracy is all about.
Lets ensure the election exercise is carried out in the proper manner, if INEC needs to be questioned let’s do it. Let’s also ensure that we accept or challenge the result of March 28 in a reasonable way. Political violence is bound to ensue from the outcome of the result but we can prevent that. Spread the word to vote right and act right during the election. Don’t join the plots to carry out electoral malpractice. The outcome of the June 12, 1993 presidential elections turned out to be a bloody affair. Don't make it happen this time if your family, friends and your country means a lot to you. Failure to act right means we should prepare for a more gruesome version of June 12.
Paul Collier in his book: Wars, Guns and Votes says change is difficult because there are strong forces resisting it. Let’s use this to reflect on the tough change Nigeria needs rather than APC or Buhari change.
  
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Saturday, 21 March 2015

JONATHAN VS. BUHARI: TRANSFORMATION OR CHANGE?

To think six weeks was far away when INEC announced that the originally scheduled elections of February 14 and 28 would be shifted to March 28 and April 11, well its almost here. In a week’s time Nigeria decides. I’m still upset by the fact the elections had to be postponed. Why put election on Valentine’s Day? Anyways we are now almost there so we can all do the exercise and go to bed. But wait, go to bed? Not quite. There’s so much tension around the country, questions are raised if the elections would hold next week or not. It had better hold because lots of personal plans and preparations have been shifted because of the delays.
There is a lot of adrenaline running in Nigerians all because of two men that will decide the next step the country takes. The rivalry between Goodluck Jonathan and Muhammadu Buhari has been so intense. It’s a rivalry that hasn’t been seen in Nigeria’s transition to civilian rule in 1999. Indeed there was no rivalry because the PDP that has been in power since then never saw any tough opposition to challenge it. The Alliance for Democracy (AD) never posed a serious threat to PDP’s hold on the presidency and it went through numerous changes to become APC today. When the APC merger was created in 2013, I felt it was just another failed attempt for a party to form as the main opposition to PDP. I guess I was wrong. APC has indeed unsettled PDP and we can see the result of the many schemes by Jonathan to prevent Buhari from contesting.
Buhari has been able to gather so much support, the APC slogan “CHANGE!” is chanted almost everyday. Groups all over the place are formed campaigning for change. It brings me to ask the question is Buhari really the man for change? Nigerians are obviously tired of the Jonathan administration which has so far failed in leadership. It has been riddled with widespread corruption, mismanagement of public funds and currency crisis. Nigerians are tired of epileptic power supply that is ruining businesses, mass unemployment for the vibrant youth populace. Jonathan doesn’t seem to get it right. Let’s not even forget the Boko Haram insurgency. I for one never saw them as a national/international threat. The kidnapping of the over 200 Chibok school girls is well under control. I do not believe so many girls will disappear like that. The military been incompetent is also false. In other words, Jonathan fooled us while some believed the country was on the verge of splitting which I still stand strong to say will never happen.
So Jonathan needs to go because he has failed and brings me back to what I asked earlier: is Buhari the man for change? Let’s put aside his military record or the fact he doesn't have a valid SSCE certificate. Your academic qualification doesn't necessarily determine who you are. Buhari under the civilian era has been contesting for the presidency since 2003. This he has done under the platform of various political parties which have included ANPP and CPC which formed part of the APC merger. If Buhari is the man for change, why didn’t we vote him in all these years? Why now that he’s in APC which seems to be his biggest platform. What if Atiku Abubakar won the APC presidential ticket in Lagos? Would be shouting CHANGE? Are we voting for party or personality?
Many people say PDP has ruled for 16 years and nothing to show for it. I would like to ask where would you put Obasanjo? He might have had issues but he laid foundations of many things we are enjoying today. The boom in the telecom and banking sector was made through this man. These two sectors are partly responsible for why Nigeria is now the largest economy in Africa. He had the best ministerial cabinet and hired the best brains. He still remains the best civilian head of state till date. It only remains unseen if Buhari or Jonathan will surpass him so much for the change and transformation agendas. Let’s stop been party driven but personality driven in our choices.
Is Buhari a credible candidate for the presidency? I can understand Jonathan needs to go but let’s stop shouting CHANGE! all over the place. How are we sure that this CHANGE! campaign isn't a ploy to sway us just like Jonathan used “I had no shoes” in 2011. Buhari might have a zero tolerance for corruption and indiscipline but this isn't a military era. Things are entirely different. I know he can’t do worse than Jonathan has done but is serious change for Nigeria going to come under Buhari? Buhari is attached to Bola Tinubu who is allegedly corrupt and I’m still yet to see how both will co-operate. I won’t be surprised if I saw a fall out between them similar to that of Jonathan and Obasanjo. Is it under the watch of Tinubu Buhari wants to bring change? What of the many bad eggs that decamped from PDP to APC? Have they become good eggs for joining APC?

                                                
*To be continued.

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Monday, 19 January 2015

ARE WOMEN GRADUALLY TAKING OVER THE WORLD? CONTINUED

One area I give credit to the women is in business. I've been able to see they are better managers. I’m amazed at how women entrepreneurs multitask. They can combine as much as four business ventures together and manage it successfully without seeing signs of stress and fatigue on their faces. I know some of them personally. Men can hardly do this. I think it’s a special gift they have and that’s a plus for the woman.
Women might have been successful in the areas of business, management, academics, media, law among others but one area that has little representation is politics. Very few women are seen engaging in politics across the world. It’s even more restricted in Africa and Asia but some have decided to stand tall and defy the norm. To the credit of the woman, we have female heads of state that are heading powerful nations. Germany is the largest economy in Europe and is headed by Angel Markel. Brazil, Argentina and Chile are the three leading economies in South America and are headed by women in Dilma Roussef, Cristina Fernández de Kirchner and Michelle Bachelet respectively. Emerging Asian economy South Korea’s current president Park Guen-hye is female. Australia had a former female prime minister in Julia Gillard. This shows that women are taking over powerful nations. I believe the greatest achievement for ‘Girl Power’ would be to have a female president in the most world’s powerful nations: The United States, Russia and China and also a female UN Secretary-General. A Nigerian female president would also be a plus to Africa’s largest economy. Can that happen?  It will be tough but with the current trend, it’s only a matter of time before it becomes reality. Afterall late Margaret Thatcher who was popularly known as ‘Iron Lady’ is the longest serving and one of the best British prime ministers till date.
Inspite of the success Girl Power has been able to achieve since the protests of the 1960s many women still continue to be denied equal rights and face sexual violence and harassment. Nevertheless the emancipation of women has given them a bigger audience and louder voice in a society that is dominated by men.
The one problem I have with Girl Power is that women who find themselves in position of authority tend to be authoritarian in character. They go overboard on little issues and it becomes annoying to the male subordinates. The success of women in business and management has seen them in some cases earn more than their male counterparts and as such fail to respect or give regard to the men.
Regardless of how successful a woman can be, the man will always be ahead of her. This is proven biologically. Only if a woman decides not to have a family can she keep up with a man. Even at that, it’s still impossible. Men and women do not possess the same physical strength. The woman can say all she likes to defend herself but I think the man is still in charge. Women need to know that they are an integral part of a man’s life and vice versa. I refuse to accept those lines in girl power songs that say the woman can do without a man. If the woman can do that, it won’t last a life time. She’ll need a man at some point and that’s why it’s important for both sexes to respect each other rather than do the blame game. Even Beyoncé after ranting so much about women taking charge in her acclaimed song ‘Run the world (Girls)’ said “boy I’m just playing… hope you still like me…..” I think that says it all. *winks.*
    
                     

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Thursday, 15 January 2015

ARE WOMEN GRADUALLY TAKING OVER THE WORLD?

And the saying goes ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’. I grew up with that statement been said over and over again and men were still in charge. The role of a woman has traditionally been confined to the home while the man does all the work. That was the status quo for many centuries until women started challenging it through writings in the 18th century. The 1960s saw a mass wave of protests by women in the developed world calling for equal rights with men. The woman has the right to equal pay, equal education, equal opportunities in the work place, legal and financial independence, right to birth control and abortion, the right to determine sexuality and non-discrimination against lesbians and also freedom from violence and sexual coercion.
These were some huge demands by the women and it can said that their efforts to put themselves on the same scale as men without discrimination has taken shape not only in the developed world but the entire world. One area that is having huge influence in the rights for women today is music. Many of today’s female artists compose songs whose themes center on liberty and emancipation of women popularly termed ‘Girl Power’. Artists such as Beyoncé Knowles have led the trail in this area. Her song ‘Run the world (Girls)’ has got to be the best Girl Power song till date. Its lyrics and music video seems to intimidate the man by saying Girls are in charge and not men. Other energetic Girl Power songs by the Creole lady include ‘Independent women’, soundtrack to Charlie’s Angels and Survivor by Destiny’s Child. Other popular female artists that have composed Girl Power songs include Pink, Christina Aguilera, Alicia Keys, Aretha Franklin among others.
The women might have been protesting for equal rights with man but who would think that it would really take serious effect. The result today is jawdropping. Women now make up 45% of the world labour force this includes the Arab world were many women are restricted in the work place due to gender and religious segregation. They now work with men without any problem. If one takes a look at Nigeria, women are gradually taking over the corporate world. Women are now flooding the banks, they are heading departments in corporate organisations and are becoming CEOs. Women are now taking up positions in management and are been favoured over the men. There’s the saying that woman are better managers and their position in the management field tends to show that.

Girls are also flooding schools. Infact the ratio of girls in class today outnumbers boys. While doing some research, I found out that girls make up the large population in management courses in University such as Accounting, Economics, Marketing and Business Administration. I used Babcock University, the University of Ibadan and University of Lagos to make these findings. Courses relating to the media such as Mass Communication also have large population of girls as well as Law. Girls are now topping the class ahead of the guys. Some guys even rely on the girls to pass their courses. The population of girls is small in the pure and applied sciences. Fields such as Medicine, Engineering and Computer Science have a small fraction of girls but I’m sure their little numbers would dare the norm and aim to top the class and come up with innovative ideas which have been all created by men. Women have defied the odds in doing extreme activities that are highly dangerous and of course only done by men. We now have women who have gone on space missions such as Valentina Tereshkova, Kathryn Sullivan, Rhea Seddon, Mae Jemison, Anna Fisher, Roberta Bondar among many others. A few women have been able to challenge men on the race track such as Danica Patrick and Johanna Long in Indy Car Racing and NASCAR, Maria Teresa de Filippis and Lella Lombardi in Formula one, Vanina Ickx and Desiré Wilson in the 24 Hours of Le Man race.


*To be continued.


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Thursday, 1 January 2015

WHAT THE NEW YEAR SHOULD BE ALL ABOUT.

Another New Year is upon us and as always is the tradition, there's a lot of frenzy to mark the New Year. December 31st is always seen as a tense day. People bustling all over the place to make last minute preparations towards the New Year. The night time is the most noisy, fireworks lighting the sky, music all over the place, people drinking up in bars, guys stroking girls in motels or their private homes and of course people flocking to church for the cross over service. This is great but is that all that really matters?
We all make New Year resolutions wanting to improve on something and make fervent earth shaking and ground moving prayers to God to bless us and increase us in all we do. As the year goes by, we do see improvement in ourselves, job promotion, marriage, new house, new car, earning an academic degree among other things. God indeed is moving and prayers are being answered but there is one thing that is missing from us: THE ART OF LOVING, FORGIVING AND CARING FOR OTHERS.
God might have blessed some people beyond expectations but rather than be a blessing to others just as God did, they neglect those going through difficult and turbulent times. Many are out there who don’t have anyone to care for them. Some are going through depression because of the loss of a loved one. Some have had terrible accident which has taken a toll on their health and don’t have the means for treating themselves, some don’t have a place to sleep. Every day is a struggle for them. We bypass these people while we smile and put joy in our hearts. Some of these people just need someone to talk to, someone that could give them a smile, a phone call of upliftment or encouragement to that woman who lost her husband and first son. Sometimes it’s not all about giving money but being there. One’s presence is enough to make sad emotions disappear. Even those who are blessed financially do not give to worthy causes but keep gathering the wealth, racking up millions that isn't channeled to developmental needs of society.
As said earlier, we all pray fervently for God to bless and increase us. Our prayers most times are all about ourselves neglecting to pray for others going through difficult times. Prayers shouldn't be about ‘I’ all the time. 90% of our prayers have ‘I’ while the remaining 10% is on other people or not at all. This is an entirely wrong thing. Jesus Christ prayed more for others than himself even at the point of death so why can’t we do the same? The result of such is that the lives of millions would be better and not just us alone.

I've come to realize that many people might be prayer warriors, praying day and night against the forces of evil but deep in their heart is hate and an unforgiving spirit. How is it that we pray during cross over services and yet we carry grudge and hate in our hearts just because that woman said something that wasn't pleasant to you? I've heard insults and unpleasant things in my life over and over again but does that mean that I hold grudge over such person? Absolutely not. Having bitter resentment over someone for doing something painful and hurtful doesn't make much sense. Some have carried hate in their heart for years. That’s just unbelievable. 
Jesus Christ for once never had hate in his heart. It was all about forgiveness even when people did things that didn't please God. The martyr Stephen at the point of being stoned to death prayed to God to forgive those who were doing the cruel act to him. His prayers might have saved those people so why do we find it hard to forgive someone? There’s no point keeping malice, holding grudge and hating. It just simply is an act of immaturity no matter the degree of hurt caused. Keeping such in mind can have psychological effect as time goes on so what hate? Bury the hatchet please. God isn't pleased with a heart that can’t forgive when He did much more than that for us.
Rather than start this New Year in the same fashion we have been doing over the years, why don’t we turn a new leaf. Lend a helping hand, give all you can, let someone feel happy because you were there in time of need. Pray more for those who need love and care than for yourself. God has blessed you so be a blessing to others. End the hate and grudge you have towards that person. Show some love back, if the person isn't warm towards you, do your part and leave the rest. Your bright face might just change the person’s approach.


Wishing you all a wonderful 2015. Have a great year.


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